Useful Tips for GLBT population, esp. if you are still in the CLOSET!!!

To learn

Under the Cover!

Hey friends! You know what, I had a very good classmate in college. It was a she. :-) As soon as she saw me for the first time during the faculty/student banquet, she voluntarily talked to me and offered to help. What a nice person!!! Just imagine, for a new student in a new environment, what kind of a good feeling that could be!!! Nice! And I do appreciate!

So, we continued to be friends and visited each other once in a while. She continued to be very helpful and supportive!

I knew she was divorced and I knew I had no sexual desire towards her, but simply enjoyed the friendship. However, things might not be the same on the other side!!!

One day, I was just teasing by saying that I was pursuing another girl somewhere else, and when she heard it, she didn’t appear to be angry, hurt, or glad for me.... just basically not any strong emotions at all.

However, shortly after this, she drastically became another person, getting angry over a trivial matter at me, even though she would never be like this before I talked about the chasing another girl thing. She even threatened me to pay her something…

So apparently she was hurt that I was pursuing another person, rather than her!!! And she had always wanted to at least have sex with me (sorry can’t say too much details here :P) OMG. What a shock!!!

So, people sometimes appear to be nice and friendly, but actually if they don’t get what they want, they might get furious; if they get what they want, they may remain friendly, but after using you, they may disappear [This is another story. Later on I will talk about that.]!!!

So, I would strongly encourage that we need to try out best to see what they want, and think about if we can offer that or not. If yes, we may also think about if and what they should give us in return. If we can’t offer what they want, I strongly suggest that we leave and forget about the possible current benefits we may get from them.

What do they usually want? It could be anything they need!!! It could be money, sex, or information…OMG you name it…